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Encourage a Healthy
Lifestyle
Making exercise a part of your child’s life teaches your
child the importance of fitness. This, along with proper
nutrition, plays a vital role in maintaining health.
Children need physical activity every day and
participation in sports helps fill this need. With
today’s wealth of video games and increasing computer
literacy, daily physical activity is often times
forgotten. Getting your child involved with sports helps
them make exercise a part of their lifestyle and
increases their chance of a being a healthier adult.
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Promote Self Esteem
When a child realizes that they are getting
better and better at their sport, they can’t help but
feel a sense of accomplishment. Choosing a sport your
child can grow and improve in gives your child an
opportunity to build self-esteem. Together, with
positive reinforcement from you their parent, they will
gain confidence and have a more positive view of
themselves.
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Learn Goal Setting
I’m sure you’ll agree goal setting and
success go hand in hand. Participation in sports gives
your child a fun, practical way to learn about goal
setting. They’ll see, experience, and learn about how
goal setting works. If your child’s coach doesn’t cover
goal setting, that’s okay! You as a parent can sit down
with your child and set goals. By assisting your child
in developing this skill, you give them a better chance
at succeeding in life.
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Learn and Experience
Teamwork
How often have you read a help wanted ad
where the employer wants a “team player” or a candidate
that “works well with others”? I see it all the time.
How much more valuable are you as an employee when you
can put differences aside and get the job done? Sports
teach children about teamwork and about how their
actions affect other people. If they can’t learn to work
together with teammates while playing a sport they
enjoy, how will they be able to work with co-workers
they may or may not like while performing a job they may
or may not enjoy? This is an important lesson to learn.
Encourage your child to be a team player and, as a
sports parent, keep tabs on whether or not your words
and actions promote this trait in your child.
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Develop Time
Management Skills
Adding extracurricular activities to your child’s
schedule encourages development of and time management
and prioritization skills. Teach your child that taking
care of responsibilities, such as school work and
cleaning up after themselves, comes first. This gives
them their first taste of prioritization. Next, help
your child formulate a plan which enables them to
efficiently handle their responsibilities while still
leaving time for sports practices and competitions. For
example, show your child how working on homework instead
of playing outside during their after-school program
helps them finish their homework in time for practice
each day. Then go ahead and make that part of your plan.
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Learn About Dealing
with Adversity
Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone has
problems. How well you handle these mistakes and
problems directly affects happiness and quality of life.
Many people “get in a slump” and can’t get out of it.
Others continue making the same mistakes over and over
again. In sports, we always try to minimize errors, but
we’re human. Mistakes happen. Even professional athletes
make bad choices and make bad plays, but it’s not the
mistake that counts. What you do from that point forward
carries much more significance. If your child learns how
to deal with adversity, errors, and challenges in
sports, chances are, they’ll be able to translate that
skill to real life and effectively minimize mistakes
and/or bad decisions as well as completely recover from
set backs.
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Have Fun!
Positive experiences play an essential role in raising a
happy, healthy human being. Sports provide numerous
opportunities for positive experiences both for your
child as an individual, and for your family as a whole.
“Sports parents” are blessed with the chance to watch
their child have fun while learning and developing as an
athlete and as a human being.
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